Focus your mind on “systems” instead of “goals.”
This involves choosing projects and habits that, even if they result in “failure” in the eyes of the outside world, give you transferable skills or relationships.
In other words, you choose options that allow you to inevitably “succeed” over time, as you build assets that carry over to subsequent projects.
Fundamentally, “systems” could be thought of as asking yourself, “what persistent skills or relationships can I develop?” versus “What short-term goal can I achieve.?”
The latter has a potent snowball effect, while the latter is a binary pass/fail with no consolation prize.