In search of shortcuts

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There are not many actual shortcuts.

There are merely direct paths…

Most people do not like direct paths, because they entail being honest, putting the hard work and being patient.

Things that look like shortcuts are actually detours [disguised as less work]. 

Shortcuts actually takes long.

If you don’t have time to do it right, the first, what makes you think you will have time to do it over.

Here is the best shortcut that is sure to work:

– Take the long way.

– Do the hard work, consistently and with generosity and transparency.

And then you won’t waste time doing it over.

Being Human: Filters and reality

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  1.  I have been having flu for the past two weeks which resulted in an infection, which means every morning I wake up with a headache. [I’m much better now]
  2. The manuscript for my next book is on hold for now.
  3. My personal project is not moving because I have been having a lot on my plate, I had to halt it for a while.
  4. I had to fire a service provider because they were just a pain to deal with.
  5. A speaker sent me a nasty email complaining about how we are marketing his brand [prima-donna tendencies].
  6. I ignore friends and people I care about because I don’t have the mental energy to keep up with everyone. In fact, I have 14 unopened personal Facebook messages–and the thought of going through them all exhausts me.
  7. I am 20 pounds heavier than I should be because there are too many days that I can’t pull myself away from my work.
  8. I get anxious when I don’t feel like I’m doing enough, or trying hard enough, or something’s gone wrong, and I unconsciously pick at my fingers obsessively–to the point where people have to hold my hands down.
  9. I get so obsessive with work that I sometimes forget to eat and as a result I have been losing weight unaware, [it might be good give #8 above]
  10. I’m so overloaded with things I want to do and very little time to do them.

You know why I just told you all of that?

I’m tired of people always trying to always be prim and proper through filters.

There are too many filters.

Sure. Filters make us look good.

Filters make you sound good. [Nice Facebook post you re-wrote 14 times]

Filters make us seem good.

It is easier to curate your life online than to work on it in real life.

But filters are ruining us.

Because they are filtering out reality.

And when you filter out reality, you know what you get?

One big lie.

Followed by hollowness.

So today is a no filter day, because guess what? We are human beings, and the only way we are going to stay human, is by getting human.

I don’t want to hear about how great you are.

Or how much money you have made. How “well-connected” you are. Or from what continent you are snapping a picture of yourself on some beach.

I want to know what is going on behind the smiles.

If you just saw any of our Facebook feeds, you would think we all had perfect lives.

And we all know it is not true.

We are filtering so much in our lives, it is difficult to ask for help when you need it because you have created an impression that you have got it all together.

It is only by removing the filter that we can actually say something meaningful, and  move the conversation forward.

It is about getting raw.

And sharing what our actual experience is like on this planet, not just where we succeed, but where we fail.

And how we change because of it.


Being Human: is the only way to win


Business is people, and when we focus on taking care of the feeling of life and the humanity in the people in the enterprise, business will take care of itself.

When business serves life, business also serves community, it serves art, it serves nature and our common life together.

When we grow the ‘enterprise of humanity’, it is possible that our work will generate results greater than anything we could have imagined.

The fact that humanity has to clarify any lives matter, should be concern enough.

I think ten years from now, all good jobs by any measure will be jobs where you have to be human.

Human not only as in not being a robot, or a human being, but being humane, being able to connect to your clients, having the empathy to do work that matters.

I think ten years from now, all successful organisations will be staffed by a large number of people who are more humane than just human.

I think ten years from now, any job where the person has to follow systems and procedures, do as they are told, ask no questions, will be replaced by robots.

Robots will take your job. Yes you with the university degree. For real.

Robots follow instructions far much better than humans. Plus Robots don’t go on strike, Robots don’t take sick leave, Robots don’t ask for overtime pay.

If it can be put on a manual, a robot can do it.

In a world where artificial intelligence and robotics are the next frontier in business, this means that the majority of jobs will be done by robots.

Being human is the only only option we are going to be left with to be competitive in business. 

Today you can get away with “I’m just following instructions” or “I’m just doing my job” as an excuse not to be humane.

But the future is about how willing are you to be real, to connect, to matter, to be vulnerable, to be missed when you are gone.

Being human is the only way to win. 



Being Human: We don’t need more stuff


Traditional companies, particularly large-scale service and manufacturing businesses are organised for efficiency. Or consistency.

But not joy.

Joy comes from surprise and connection and humanity and transparency and new.

If you fear special requests, if you staff with cogs, if you have to put it all in a manual, then the chances of amazing someone are really quite low.

The greatest shortage in our society is an instinct for businesses to touch humanity inside and connect to the humans in the marketplace.

The greatest irony is when we can’t feed the poor but we can fund a war.

The greatest challenge is we are living in technology that is exponential, but humans are not.

We don’t need more stuff, we need more humanity.




Being Human: Do work that matters


Caring hurts sometimes, and that is inconvenient.

The good news is that more than ever, value accrues to those that show up, those that make a difference, those that do work that matters.

The good news is that digging deep and fighting that voice that begs us to shut up instead of show up really pays off now, in more ways than we can count.

If you show up regularly with generosity, everything else is going to take care of itself.

We think too much and feel too little.

More than machinery, we need humanity.

More than cleverness, we need kindness and gentleness.

Faith in yourself, in your friends, in your colleagues and most of all, faith in your ability to impact our future is the best strategy I know.




Being Human: Why is it so difficult to be human?


What does it mean to be human anyway?

A key part of being a real person, a human being, is showing up, especially when it is difficult, particularly when it is frightening to do so.

Showing up counts for a lot.


Because it is scarce.

Someone who will comfort you on the phone in the middle of the night, then throw on a bathrobe and drive to your house. That is precious.

Someone who tells you the truth.

Someone who exposes herself, is present, connected and willing to let you hurt them.

Someone who calls you when you are sick, visit you at the hospital and goes to check on your kids, if they are keeping well.

These are the things we seek out as people, and yet we rarely find them.

People are too busy chasing deadlines and goals to have a moment to check up on you.

We see humans, but we don’t see humanity.

And yet we are rarely willing to be this person.

We built institutions, organisations and religions to make it easy to avoid being this person.

The rules and principles and jobs and buildings and code words and admonitions… they all exist to protect us from the truths we are afraid of and from the interactions we would rather not have.

They organise us, and organisation is a wonderful way to be protected.

We are not allowed to bring emotions and feelings to work, we are not paid for that, we are paid to follow rules and procedures, to produce reports, formal reports, reports without a soul.

People are stats at public hospitals, stats at road fatalities, stats for census, stats at unnecessary wars fought to prove who is more powerful.

People are stats to a sales consultant, his job is to increase the numbers so that he can get a bonus.

People have been turned into a number of followers on social media, a number that is meant to be increased to show popularity.

We go to work and we hide. We hide behind policies and procedures.

We hide behind the religion of our brand or our team or our employee manual.

We go to a foreign country and we play tourist, because actually going there is too difficult, too risky, too exposed.

Showing up counts for a lot.

Once upon a time there was humanity.

When we show up, we connect, we make change, we are transparent, and yes, we are human.